It’s not just about having someone next to us for company or who can spend leisure time, a relationship involves much more than that and eventually the desire of every couple to be together in a healthy union to grow and strengthen over time.
A long-term relationship can retain much of the charm of earlier times, to achieve creativity is needed to overcome laziness and comfortable routines.
The importance of tolerance and patience
Nothing is more exhausting for a relationship that constant desire of the parties to make another change. Changes occur in a relationship only when genuinely want to do and although is not easy to tolerate the faults of our partner is necessary to do so patient. It is very important to accept others as they are and take a deep breath before creating a storm in a glass of water with small problems that do not deserve it.
A good sex
In sexuality influence biology, but also the psychology of both. The stress and fatigue newspapers are not the best companions for a relationship. Laughter, however, allows distensiona and quieter approach. Find or create adequate (also emotional) environments and avoid “automatic” meetings are good ways to maintain a dynamic and exciting relationship. Preparing food together, slowly and announcing in advance so that both are in the same vein, it is a good way to be available for sex.
In any kind of personal relationship and respect is essential when it comes to our partner more. You must create a link that even in moments of anger we dare to fail the respect to the other, this is mutual and is one of the foundations of a healthy relationship. Loving others means also respect it.
The routines prevail because they are comfortable, but may become automatic and therefore lose the excitement. Break is easier than you think. Is to give room for spontaneity, daring to make proposals unusual and changing comfort for action. For example, make a sunny day in the week and found somewhere in town after work to talk as night falls.
Rather than being a couple, it is important that both are friends. Life can not become only obligations and responsibilities. It is building a life and a future together, but spaces of relaxation, leisure, fun and mischief are also needed. Being buddies follies, creates a very strong and rewarding relationship.
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